And looking at it from my point of view, and I'm on here WAY more than I should be you seem to take any opportunity, real or imagined to "stir the pot" with her. I don't know anything about the "take you out" stuff, so I'm going to leave that alone. Try ingoring posters who get your goat.......................it saves the sanity sometimes, LOL!
I guess I missed all the excitement after nsane's started that thread... but maybe y'all have forgotten we have this great thing on this new forum where we can "ignore" people we don't like and who's points of views we may not wish to read. :?
Oh, yeah, I have a couple of people here on my personal mental "ignore" list - but sometimes I just can't help myself, I have to reply! :lol:
Dang, Tassy, I missed it too! Something must have been way outta wack for nsane to go a-bomb on here and get banned.... Frogger <not getting into it>
If I may... As a current (and former) moderator/administrator for online message boards, might I recommend that you quietly mutter a "WTF" under your breath when you see that a thread is gone, and let it go at that. There is nothing a moderator hates more than removing a post/suspending a user. It sucks. The only thing worse is when your constituency comes running back on here talking about "disappearing threads" or "deleted posts". So the hope that you're finally getting ready to move on past whatever ugliness was in the original post gets revived, worked over, and in some cases resurrected into something as bad, or worse, than you had before. Then you delete a second thread... that is met with... "DISAPPEARING THREADS"... just to rehash the whole thing over AGAIN. When the mod/admin removes a post... let it go. If you really feel the need to vent to someone, that is what the private message functions are for... or the phone... or email. Bringing it up here just reengages all parties, and makes the moderators job even harder. $.02
you didn't miss a lot. nsane posted what happened to her today and spunky granny took it as an opportunity to pick at her again. she should be removed to always causing provoking such garbage.
The posts did go beyond the rules of the board, which is why they are gone and why people are wonderig what happened. On the board I moderate we leave a notice as to why there was action when we have to delete a post or thread for this reason. It serves as a warning and everyone understands what is going on. In this case, we would have been lenient as there were mitigating circumstances and we do take the emotional responses into account. I hope this is the case here, as well. I would also hope that the "ignore" function is explained and used for future benefit.
:mrgreen: That's what I like about you, MP, always making peace. I guess, with kids and all, you get plenty of experience with that! I watche dthe game, but only because there was no good college hoops on last night.:lol: Canes 4, Thrashers 1. Woohoo!!!! (Geez, you stay away for 2 days and all ______ braks loose around here.) Snuff
Face the facts. You provoked it. You accused her of things that you had no reasonable cause for except to provoke and stir the pot. Your sole intention was to cause problems. You did exactly what you set out to do. Congratulations, bully.
