I wish I knew who his wife was!

Ummm,well I do run a pack and I do love me some Dear and Bare hunting: lol: :lol:

 

Hows everyone doing ? Have'nt been here in a while. I feel sorry for this mans wife .I have a friend whos sweet smart and beautiful her husband hits on all her friends every chance he gets and nobody says anything to her because we want to spare her feelings he is a real jerk ! I have stopped going to her house because last time I was there he grabbed my butt.Now I have to makeup excuses not to go to her house and shes such a great person .She deserves way better than him, I have thought about telling her but at the same time I do not want to hurt her family and she has 2 kids with this butt head! maybe the wife will find that add or some emails on his computer.

 

Not to defend anyone's actions; but has anyone here actually thought that maybe the person and spouse have a very open relationship, and they might be looking for like minded people?

We know there is a club for swingers in Dunn/Erwin....just because the club is there doesn't mean that your neighbors aren't members, and perhaps this person is new to the area and wanted to get connected with just such a group.


Or perhaps he loves his wife dealy but that she is incapable of the sexual part of the relationship and maybe she is encouraging him to look outside their relationship for those needs.


LOL.....or maybe it's just Ormly trying to get a few new converts.



Craig

 

ewww, Just ewwwww......

 

It could be someone pulling a gag on everyone.

 

If his wife can not have sex and thats why hes put this ad on here , should we also assume his hand is not working either?Oh and maybe he needs someone to send him a email and tell him he can buy things now from places like adam & eve Pricillas to help him out with his little problem.lol

 

Heard there is one of those open groups in Glen Laurel, have some friends that live in that neck of the woods, this ain't no grapevine talk it's the real thing. Seems this group gets together and they switch spouses etc., so maybe this guy does have an open relationship with his wife. The problem I have is why get married. 20/20 or 60 minutes had a special on these types of relationships on one of their shows last year. Apparently these married couples feel that they have a stronger relationship/marriage versus the traditional marriages, it's just creepy to me. Once again, why get married? :roll:

 

Let's see: you and your friends are such good "friends" to this wife that you do not want her HURT by informing her of what her husband is doing? Yeah, right!!! Let her live in ignorance...without such "good" friends! That really helps her...ya think?

 

that's nasty...I used to work with a guy who was like that and it went to his butt, NASTY....

 

I imagine folks get married for a number of reasons, not all of them good ones, but they could be:

• To have a legally recognized relationship (for children/medical issues, taxes);
• To cover for their alternative lifestyle (Gays have been known to do this to get insurance and jobs);
• They Love each other;
• Etcetera

 

THAT'S what I was thinking. With friends like her, who needs enemies?

 

Well ,I do not think it helps her but at the same time some people take that kinda news differently than others.We could all get together and say guess what your dear hubby has a problem with his hands and apparently needs to try and get his **** wet more often, and he could talk his way out of it like he has before and she get upset with us. This man has cheated before and she forgave and forgot and even made excuses for him and wanted the woman branded for it .So it comes down to how to tell her and I do not want to loose her as a friend but have decided to tell her just don't no how to do it .Its kinda like when you meet a friends new bf and you hate him you don't just come out and say hes a looser girl ...NEXT......... So, maybe I should wait til she invites me some where hes gonna be and just say no he makes me unconfortable hes to touchy and talks crap when you leave from his sight I duno I will figure out some way to say it.

 

My question "why get married" was a reponse to someone's earlier blog about open relationships, sorry if this didn't come through in my response. This is why I asked the question. My beliefs, the only reason acceptable to marry is for your love and total commitment to another. Let's marry to make things legal doesn't wash with me nor does going into a marriage to hide ones true self (Gay etc.), all wrong. Just don't understand why people marry for any other reason, love and commitment is what it's all about.

 

You might not understand, but unless you fit the "Norm" this might be the only way to survive professionally and or socially.

"Well Mom the reason me and Sally don't get married is we like to have sex with multiple partners at the same time." Yeah, I can see Mom having a heart attack right there.

 

Yeah...you got the idea! Just let her know, if she wants to go somewhere with just the two of you...then great! But, you're not comfortable with him.

Maybe she doesn't care if he's "feelin' " around...but if it makes you uncomfortable, then you have a right to say NO thanks!

Good luck!

 

Hught,
Well, in the end mom would be happier for the couple who decides to not marry for those reasons versus entering into a marriage that goes against all good morals and christian beliefs. I'm a mother of children that are old enough to marry and they've been raised with the understanding that marriage is a very serious commitment, it is a contract under God and is not to be entered into lightly. Absolutely no reason to marry someone for financial reasons etc., other ways to deal or solve your problems. Speaking from 25 years of marriage, marry for love/commitment/devotion for one other person, no other reason.

 

Ah, but not all of us a Christians, or very good Christians.

As I have stated in other posts I am not one, yet, my marriage is strong.

 

I just got off the phone with her she wanted to go shopping tonight .I told her. she says hes misunderstood hes very friendly and means nothing by it hes a loving person and would never do anything to disrespect or hurt a woman.So I told her last time I was there he grabbed my butt and when I slapped him upside the head he said "you know you want it "and I think thats more than friendly she hung up on me so I guess shes mad.Maybe I shouldnt have gave details to her.

 

Let's reply to him and set up a Dateline NBC - To Catch A Preditor kinda thing on him...

Who wants to be the Chris Hansen who grills him?

 

Or do it in person, this is not news that I would do over the phone unless I could not help it and it was an emergency.