As the 40yo mother of 4

Discussion in 'Discussion Group' started by ready2cmyKing, May 23, 2007.

  1. ready2cmyKing

    ready2cmyKing Well-Known Member

  2. kdc1970

    kdc1970 Guest


    I only have one, I am 36 and STILL think she's out of her mind.......................but before anyone flames me, I guess to each his own! Better her than me! :mrgreen:
     
  3. KellBell

    KellBell Well-Known Member

    I am 42 and have 10 year old twins......She truly has completely lost every marble in her head. I wish her all the luck in the world, once they become mobile.
     
  4. kaci

    kaci Well-Known Member

    My exact thoughts:lol:
     
  5. Southernborn

    Southernborn Well-Known Member

    I know I read this ealier and thought...at 60; I want to be retired, sitting at my house on the beach and enjoying my grandkids during the summer. Heck, I didn't want any after I turned 30; much less at 60!
     
  6. MissyPrissy

    MissyPrissy Well-Known Member

    I hear ya! I had my now almost 3 yr old daughter at 34 way after I thought I was done! Just when I had the older two pretty self effcient, boom, I had anothere one and had to start all over again. lol Glad I wasn't 60 though! lol
     
  7. kookookacho

    kookookacho Well-Known Member

    Yep yep... I wanted to be done birthin' babies b/f I was 30 too.

    Finished that race in the nick of time! SHEEEW! :lol:
     
  8. Tit4Tat

    Tit4Tat Well-Known Member

    I cant even imagine having babies at 60. On another note. My best friend in Seattle has a 21 year old, a 10 year old, and a 2 year old. Wants more..

    Her 21 year old has a 1 year old.

    She is my age (37)

    makes my blood pressure rise just thinking about it.
     
  9. ServerSnapper

    ServerSnapper Well-Known Member

    At 60 I am going to be chasing 25 year olds to 45 year olds. So watch out!!!:shock:
     
  10. KellBell

    KellBell Well-Known Member


    You have got to be kidding??? Jeez...I can't even imagine what THAT must be like.....
     
  11. kdc1970

    kdc1970 Guest

    All I know is, God gave us menopause for a reason! I don't know that our bodies were meant to be pregnant that late in life. But again, it ain't up to me, thank goodness!
     
  12. Southernborn

    Southernborn Well-Known Member

    Yep,

    My best friend is 33 and has a 15 yo, 14 yo, 12 yo and 5 yo....so glad it's not me..I couldn't take it! She wanted to have another one after the 5 yo and her DH said He!! No...LOL
     
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  13. KellBell

    KellBell Well-Known Member


    and God gave us tubal ligation too. and for that, I am thankful. This gal knows when to say when......
     
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  14. MissyPrissy

    MissyPrissy Well-Known Member

    ktbailey and I are safe then since we are fixed. LMAO!
     
  15. MissyPrissy

    MissyPrissy Well-Known Member

    I was a little late saying 'when', but I did it, that's what counts right?!:lol:
     
  16. Curious

    Curious Well-Known Member

    Those of you who know me know that my DH and I have 9, yes nine, children. He had (4 living with him) and I had 3 when we got married, so we had 7 all together. Well to make a long story short, we had 4 in college and the youngest had just graduated from high school in June, when our next to the youngest was born in August. (We had been married 6 years when he was born) He is now 13. Exactly one year and 16 days later our youngest was born. She is 12. Needless to say our son was a surprise and our daughter was a SHOCK! I was 41 and 42 when they were born. Our kids range in age from 42 to 12! We have 9 grandchildren, one greeat-grandchild, and another grandbaby due the first week of June. I wouldn't trade our family for anything! They all live locally and Christmas, birthdays, etc. are wonderful at my house!
    But would I want to have a baby at 60? Not if I could help it. It's my understanding that this lady used someone else's eggs so this was a planned pregnancy. Can't imagine planning one at 60. I just hope I live to see my two youngest ones grown and married! I'm 54 now and will be 55 soon and know I don't have the same energy level that I had just a few years ago! I say more power to her if that's what she wants, but I'm not sure it's fair to those kids if she's not able to keep up with them or worse, if she's not around to see them grown.
    Sorry for the long post!
     
  17. KellBell

    KellBell Well-Known Member

    I did it as soon as they were done extracting two babies....I didn't want to take any chances. LOL---I tell people all the time I been 'neutered'.
     
  18. MissyPrissy

    MissyPrissy Well-Known Member

    It sounds like you have a wonderful family girl!:-D Even though my 3rd one was a surprise and having her totally changed my life, I wouldn't change it for the world!
     
  19. Just One Guy

    Just One Guy Well-Known Member

    When the kids are coming out of diapers, the parents will be going into diapers..
     
  20. Curious

    Curious Well-Known Member

    LOL, you may be right!
     

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