Amen! I hate it when people say marriage is 50/50, I think it was Dr. Phil or someone along those lines that said it best, it's 100/100!
That's B.S.!!! GO home and make your men a nice chocolate cake, then rub his feet in a bikini, and....well. I might as well stop. That stuff happened before "I do" was said. Just kiddin ladies. But my back is kinda tight. HG come stand on my back!!!
SS- Buy your wife the "Proper Care and Feeding of Husband's" by Dr. Laura Shclesswhater-- can't remember how to say/spell her last name. (www.drlaura.com) I'm not saying I agree 100% with everything she writes, but she has a lot of good points and it may open up the lines of communication between you and Mommy. It might be worth a try. Her latest book is the "Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage". I haven't read that one, but assume it addresses issues/feelings of both spouses. I'm certainly not the perfect wife, and have fallen into the "mommy mode" life. Her book was a good reminder to me to not neglect my DH.
Hello!?! We push a huge object out of you know where or get cut wide open and WE are suppose to make you feel better? Mommy mode my butt... What's wrong with you GUYS planning a slinky kinky night for us to unwind from said mommy mode. Pffffft SS get your head out of the porn mags and quit looking for an excuse to fool around outside of your marriage. Hey fellas.... Have YOU told your wife you love her today?
You are right....Women do all the work, and the Men are feeling sorry for themselves... oh please.....Men contribute some fun loving swimmers and their job is done, I mean done and they get all the credit and compliments, etc. etc. Stop crying and ask your wife what she might need... don't ask just once and say I asked you.... you must ask hundreds of times a day.. not just once in a year and say I asked you....Whew, that said...