Well, I can listen to the excitement from my porch swing, but it's just been too darn hot this summer. That, and the flies from the dumpster are just a little too numerous this year.
angeleyes wrote Don't you ex-husbands think that,you just keep paying that child support to your ex,:lol: she's not spending any of that money on her boyfriend, of course she may help out with his car payment every now and then,that reminds me I'm going to need a little help with mine,so husbands try to pay a little extra every month , the children can wear last years clothes
I meant it helps them sleep at night knowing oh its ok I didn't pay for my kid this year but heck it was just going to her whore moms boyfriend. Thats the way some think. I'm not going to argue over it with men that would be fighting a loosing battle considering must that are in court for not paying are men. BTW, My childs father died before she was born,just so ya know I raise her completly on my own so I never had to deal with a child support issue for my daughter I was speaking of people I know. I have also heard alot of people complaining who come into work about having it taken out their checks and how much they have to pay and it P's me off when you can tell alot of them are making the whole boyfriend thing up.One man who is the worse and I wish his wife would have got his ****s in there divorce complains about paying 350 a month for 2 kids under 5 and he makes around 1,200 a week I know cause I do his pay check and have to deduct and send it to child enforcement , and the idiot asks every week if I can pretend I forgot to deduct it , thats not even enough to cover one childs day care and the idiot says if she'd stayed married to him she wouldn't need dayare. So I have a hard time feeling sorry for deadbeat dads.
angeleyes wrote :shock: Thats enough to keep any womans spouse on the straight and narrow I bet you don't have any problems with your husband,bless his heart:lol: :lol:
When I divorced and got custody of my two daughters, I never asked for a cent of child support from my ex-wife, even though she made almost as much as I did. I just wanted custody of my children, not any money from her. And she's been more than willing not to pay for anything, even when they went to college and got married!! But she still loves to tell people how there's no love like a mother's love, a father just wouldn't understand.
Your right it does happen and I know mothers that do just that. But, I know I'm not one of them. My daughter didn't ask for this. I do the best I can. Sheri So you think you know me huh??? lol
This may have been posted already, so please disregard if so! My children all have 4 legs so I don't have any off to K yet...BUT on G105 they have Bob read this poem every year on the first day of school. He sobs like a baby and reads it...I cry every time!!!
I heard him this morning too. Even though mine are 21 and 19 now, it brought on a few tears for me too. Brenda
Now Angel...I take exception to that...and I'm a mom. There are fathers out there who are every bit as tender and loving and protective of their children as mothers. If you think women have that over men just because they are women, you are sadly perpetuating a cliche that has harmed men in court regarding custody, for years upon years.
Oh yes their are some dads who are way better than moms with their children.I have seen and known many men who should get custody over the moms no doubt at all.I was saying most men do not have a strong bond with their children from what I have seen.You have to admit in most cases of ok, lets say married people its the moms " job" to be the main care giver. Not always but most of the time it is the mom not the dad. Thats not to say dads do not help out but most the time its the mothers . Look around at any ped. office its mostly moms.Not all men are evil I do not think that way , but I have heard the she spends the child support money on her B/f and not the kids so I am not paying and for the most part I think thats a crock.Too many people use that as a get outta child support free card.
Wasn't sure, but there aren't many Sheri's in the world. When I saw you sign your name, I was curious if it was, but not to the point where I'd ask. The Sheri I know is (was?) happily married. (She's also a huge Indianapolis Colts fan.)
Yall can all laugh at me next year. My ONLY goes to kindy next year and I'm pretty sure I'm going to need medications beforehand. And he's been in daycare since he was 6 weeks old. Tough just realizing that you're only going to get to do it ONCE and that someone else is now responsible for him. Ugh, I don't want to think about it this year. It's bad enough he's already asking to go! K
