i think that's jenna jameson, but how would i know? this is gonna be a toughie. you can't unring a bell, you know?
I did not pick a relative of his. thats nasty. I picked someone who I am friends with ( or in his words "was friends with" ) A man who we both no but not really friends with as in we do not no him well and last but not least a man who use to be his friend ( not best friend) but he hates cause they got in some fight over something I am not allowed to no about. when I say allowed I don't mean he said your not allowed this info, but when I ask why they don't speak he says it cause hes a sob .So I know I should have said someone in a movie or someone I'd never meet but its to late now. I have decided I am now going to answer these questions with lies.
I am sure I can come up with something. I am just not sure I should have too. I think he owes me a apology for asking me a trick question. Now that I think about it I said the singer in Hinder was cute not long ago and he said he was a ( bad word people call gays) . So if I named stars I would never meet, he would have found something wrong with them too. It is funny you knew her name just came to ya huh? lol
wow, the more i hear about him and the "in his words" stuff, the more i think you should run, run, run away. nothing personal, but these seem like early dating lessons. are you fairly young? none of my business, of course, but this sounds like stuff i went through in high school and maybe my early twenties. you'll be ok. just don't take weird crap off of your boyfriends. through this stuff, you'll learn what you want and don't want in a mate, and what you will put up with and what you won't. i understand there's emotions involved and all, and maybe it's harder to see from inside the realtionship, but this does not sound healthy for you. oh, and i TOTALLY disagree with your thread title. you did something maybe naive, but not bad. that sounds like him talking, not you.
Funny you should say that. I am in my twenties but won't say how young cause don't wanna. lol But he is a few years older than me 30 . So he should no better.We have been off and on again for a while now. we have broke up a few times cause of his stuff but he is going to Anger managment and someone else for his problems ( court appointed so he does go ) I gave him another chance and probably shouldn't have but I have. But I think its gonna be a little harder now cause my family hates him to the point that 2 of my brothers have beat him up. He is now pushing the moving in together thing and that aint happening.
i sorta feel like dr phil i usually don't poke my nose into threads like this. don't know why i did tonight exactly...i hate to see people kick themselves when they shouldn't. but thanks for not getting defensive or whatever and for talking like you're at least thinking about the advice you're getting here. old people can share some wisdom now and then....
Honey, it's time to cut and run. I've been around this type of relationship and it will go down the wrong road pretty fast. 1. You don't need to be spied upon during your day. 2. You don't have to back up everything you say or do. 3. When someone loves you and is secure and stable, it is a beautiful thing. This, however, doesn't sound like that. Sorry to sound harsh, but I've been there, even been the one to call, when the police had to come by. I've cleaned up blood, trashed torn clothes, and fixed broken door jambs. I've held someone scared out of their wits, and been with them peeking around a corner, just waiting for the cops to hurry up and get there. Get out now before this starts looking familiar... Frogger
Thats easy to say when your standing on the outside looking in. I admit I do alow him to make me feel sorry for him. And for the most part I have taken him back time after time because I want to believe he is a changed person but I realise hes not going to change now .
From personal experience with this...RUN...or you guys can get couples therapy and deal with it all and put it all out on the table if you are determined to stay with him. My advice is to get out of that relationship, because 20 years from now it's going to be the same crap different day!
Please excuse, if this has already been said. Four pages is a little much to go over when I have a meeting in a few. Here's my ever so humble opinion... Personally I think he's looking for an excuse (consciously or not). I don't know of any guy who would ask a question and then get mad at the answer, unless they were planning on it. I could be wrong, and I'm not suggesting (as others have done) that you "run". Better you talk it out and find out what's really happening.
playing the game 'who would you screw' is never a good sign. And for future references, don't pick real life people, pick TV/Movie people, to be on the safe side.
I agree.....he totally set you up looking for something to get mad about and start a fight. Your just a young pup.....your needs, wants, likes, dislikes, what you will put up with and wont will change in the years to come. I would NOT put up with what you are dealing with, life is too short and this is your one time around....why be miserable and unhappy? There are some good boys left out there and you deserve to be happy!!!
I think a few here are more like on the inside looking back, with better perspective, rather than on the outside looking in. And, the ONLY time you can change a man is when he's in diapers. After reading through this thread, I (and probably a few others here as well) am feeling afraid for your safety. Been there, done that. Getting out only seems like it's easier said than done.
