this thread is still only one page for me... USER CP> EDIT OPTIONS> THREAD DISPLAY OPTIONS> SHOW 40 POSTS PER PAGE ok, well now that there's 43 posts it's on a second page....
We have talked and things are not going to be working out this time. He has actually gave me a list of who he dosen't aprove of me talking too. Poor thing hes a idiot. He actually said I was not to speak to my mom more than once a week if we were to be together cause " she is against him" .I tried to be very mature about it until he started in on why I should dissown members of my family that do not like him. I then insulted his man parts .So it was not a very grown-up conversation.I think he got the point that I meant buissness when I threw hot coffee in his face though.But, in my defense he had grabbed my left wrist and I threw it with my right so it was a reflex. I think I need time to be by myself anyways.
My X was like that. He had some serious issues. I was in my 20's and looking back in my mid 30's, I would have dumped him a LONG time ago. You need to get out! It's only going to get worse.
I think he maybe a homophobic . He is always putting down people for being gay. You can never watch anything with a gay man in it or he will talk trash the whole time.
You need to get out of this relationship (if thats what you want to call it) NOW! He definitly sounds like he has lots of problems. I just hope he will leave you alone when you leave........:shock:
Now I'm really irritated about this (brain's finally working)! You HAVE to stand up for yourself! He WILL walk all over you if you let him. And by you saying you are sorry or feel bad about what happened - he's already walking all over you and you don't know it. He has all the control and you have - ZERO! Let me at 'em. :twisted:
Leave? We are not living together. I own my house he owns his. He would stay weekends and times my daughters not home. He has never lived with me full time just like sleep overs. He lives in wake county. He is also afraid of one of my brothers I know that for a fact . He also can not get in anymore trouble right now . If he does get in anymore trouble it could be jail time hes on parole. I have no problem sending his butt to jail if he bothers me. He is on parole now for asalt and has been in trouble for that before his parole lasts 2 more years he can not get in no trouble or its off to jail. He knows that too cause he said if he could he'd knock the **** outta me and I said go right a head bigboy you don't look so good in stripes and they don't let ya smoke in jail no more so if you want to go ahead you will suffer more than me.
Ok, are you 'playing' us...this all sounds like an episode of Cops !!:roll: What I mean by leaving the relationship is.......break up with him and don't see him anymore.
I was gonna apologise but he started talking and the more he talked the madder I got. So now I don't feel bad about it. I am ok with the list I gave. And now I can go out with any on that list just to pee him off if I want and he can't do anything about it. But I won't.
Oh I am not seeing him anymore after today but he has some stuff at my house. I may see if I can leave it out side and he pick it up.
I'm not I am going to stick with being man free for a while. I need to work on some of my own stuff.I also need to stay closer to my own age group mom said thats where I am going wrong. She may have a point she said if they are that much older they think they can boss you around.
The fact that you are even reasoning with yourself just blows me away!! What are you freakin' nuts? I know you don't think you have to 'settle' for this guy? Girl, you need to RUN and RUN fast.....cut all ties. Good Gracious.
