I don't see why this would cause you not to each one of their BBQ plates again. It is a very sad and tragic thing that has happened and could have happened anywhere. We don't know what the outcome is going to be and yes whoever did this should be punished for it. This church as a wonderful congregation and we all need to pray for this family and the church.
I am surely praying for the Wynn family and Hollands United Methodist Church! They also have the prayers of our church too!! This is so sad for so many people. I hope that the truth comes out whomever did this (pastor or someone else - I hope it was not the pastor) and that the families remain strong thru Christ!
DH's maternal side of the family has belonged to Hollands for a very very long time, and his grandmother has never liked Wynn since he came in as the pastor a few years ago... I can only imagine if he is found guilty.