I was just reading the forums in WRAL about the woman who was kicked of a plane for breastfeeding her baby......Is that just wrong, or what? She was not LAP DANCING, she was feeding her baby. Are people really that narrow minded? :? :roll:
Well, I do have problems with public breast feeding. There are bathrooms everywhere. For instance, we were at the NC Zoo sitting on a bench with my 7 and 9 year old BOYS when this lady looks at us, sits across on another bench and pulls her boob out in front of my boys and starts going to town. Yes I gave her a few words and she had enough since to finally cover up. If you are going to breast feed, have enough RESPECT to see who is around you. If you need to feed you baby , don't put it for the world to see! COVER IT UP LADIES !!! Little boys don't need to see your boob !
You probably also have problems with public holding of hands too. Would you want to eat in a bathroom? Other than you not having enough sense to spell sense correctly, perhaps if you spent as much time on teaching your boys that it's no biggie as you seem to do coming unglued at the sight of a boobie, you wouldn't have to worry about your boys. Why do they care? That's the real question. You should have raised your boys with respect for Mothers, rather than seeing only a boob.
I could care less who's hand you hold, but I do know NO 6 or 8 year old need to see such stuff. Maybe you get turned on to something like that, but other people find it offensive. Like I did your comment. I have enough sense to spell, just a slip . Guess you pick your nose, scratch yourself, and gaulk over breastfeeding women in public. Don't try to jump on me because I have a different opinion than you! Its my choice on when my kids should know about breastfeeding and sex for that matter! My kids RESPECT mothers, they don't need to see mothers in action. Should I tell them why women use tampons too Cliff?
I find it neither a turn on, not a turn off. It's just a baby eating. I think that's your problem, though. You equate breast with sex and have passed that on to your children. My point exactly. To you breastfeeding and sex are the same thing. I feel sorry for your boys to have to grow up with the mores you are teaching.
I nurse in front of my son and no I don't show him my "boob"... I am covered up all the time...even in my own home. If my kid needs to eat, she's gonna eat... where ever and when ever. AND you eat in a bathroom! :roll:
Quack,Quack, Quack............that's all I hear. It has nothing to do with sex. Guess your mom breast feed you till you were 6 or 7 years old! I've passed respect on to my children, not sex you idiot! Your comments sound like you need to get off that high horse you think you are on and see it from a kids point of view. Not as an adult who knows whats going on. If a little boy sees a boob, you think he's going to automatically know a woman is breast feeding? No! I get asked mom, "WHAT'S THAT LADY DOING?"
Wow...........just wow......... Breastfeeding is just as natural as giving a baby a bottle, or changing a diaper, etc. And no, I've didn't BF my first child, but I will this one. And let me just tell ya, if you go spouting off to me just cause I'm trying to feed my kid, you're liable to have your kids see a whole lot more than me feeding mine. They're liable to see their Mom be made a fool of!
Look I explained it to my son the first time he seen me in the hospital nursing and now he will tell anyone who comes over or sees me... 'My mama feeds my sister from her chest. That is where her milk is.' Keep your boys sheltered in that little black box and they'll always stay little boys... just like you seem to like it. All it takes is a little explaining to your boys but I guess that's just too hard for you. :? I'm out...Kookoo puff needs some milk. :lol:
You cover up! That's all I ask. No, I don't eat in a bathroom. And a baby breastfeeding doesn't know or care where they are if they are SOOOOOOOOOO hungry.
No doubt. Anytime you don't like what someone is saying, you tune it out. Then why did you bring it up (and equate it)? Nope, not that it's any of your business. I find that hard to believe, based on your earlier comments. Tell me, what is the kids point of view? The kids know nothing except what they learn (mostly by their parents). If you treat breastfeeding as some perverted act, of course they're going to see that too. But, if the parent treats it like it's nothing big, the kids will treat it the same way as well. What's wrong with simply saying, "She's feeding her baby"? Do you want women to feed their babies in bathrooms just so you won't have to answer your child's question?
I explained it to them then. Just wanted to do it on my own terms not because some lady didn't have enough respect to COVER UP! You guys are not looking at it from a little boys view. If they weren't with me, I could care less. But for them to be with me is a different story. All I ask is to cover up.
I haven't tuned anything out. I could care less. You seem to be tuning out way too much. Like respecting another parent. You must be how old Clif??
That's what I said. You want mothers to feed their babies in bathrooms so you won't have to answer your child's questions.
You know nothing about me or my kids,except what I tell you. I answered their question ......if you can read. I would have a mother to go anywhere, not a bathroom in paticular, just not at a ZOO where all little KIDS run around. We went to see the wild not reality TV. Guess that zoo trip was a real exibit on how to breast feed a baby, the damn animals with babies weren't out there feeding their young, you know that natural process of taking care of their young. Why not see a woman do it?
Well,yes there was ! I walked over to her and said, "hey, I've got two little boys over there and if you could, can you cover up. ' Out of RESPECT she did!
