Need a Prayer...and an Idea

Discussion in 'Discussion Group' started by FrameMaMa, Mar 9, 2009.

  1. FrameMaMa

    FrameMaMa Well-Known Member

    Hello my 4042 family...

    many of you that know that my father is fighting cancer right now. I need some prayers for him, I almost lost him the other night.
    My dad has Renal Cell Carcinoma and has done very well for two years since his diagnosis. Last week he was going to the doctor and fell stepping up on the sidewalk. (He has always had bad knees) not suprising though. The other night he started to act really funny. My mother wanted to take him to the ER but he said no he was just tired. He went to bed and the next morning had no idea who or where he was. She called 911 and when the paramedics found out that he was a Type 2 diabetic they checked his sugar. A normal blood sugar is around 100. His was 10!! He is getting better now, but he nearly died. Please pray for my dad, I am not ready to lose him. Those that know me know that I have had enough tragedy in my life for now.
    I had a nice vacation planned for him this summer and he cannot go.

    The idea I need is, we are planning a big party this summer in his backyard.
    (This is the house I grew up in)
    In the midst of this giant shindig, my dad will be lounging out by the pool...we hope. Problem is that he cannot stand up from a sitting position very well at all. Is there some kind of great outdoor lounging chair or some other kind of device that can help him out of a big comfy chair?
    Once he is standing he is ok. He just can't get up well becuase he cannot put any pressure on his knees.

    Sorry this is so long, but any help would be very much appreciated.
    As well as your prayers.
    Thank you so much:grouphug:
     
  2. PirateGirl

    PirateGirl Well-Known Member

    I am definitely thinking of you. My mom lost a kidney to renal cell 12 years ago. She lived cancer-free for that long until lung cancer hit with a vengence (she quite smoking almost 32 years prior).

    I know there is a device that attaches to recliners so I am sure there is something out there. Could you possibly contact a medical supply store?

    Maybe something like this:
    http://www.allegromedical.com/lift-...fting-cushion-uplift-seat-assist-p189834.html
     
  3. FrameMaMa

    FrameMaMa Well-Known Member

    Thanks PirateGirl,
    I am so sorry about your mom. I know that has to be hard. :grouphug:
    My dad's cancer has metasticized(sp?) MOVED! from his kidney to his liver, lymph nodes, and lungs, he is on an oral chemotherapy and so far everything is very stable, some of the tumors have even started to shrink. I am praying so hard.

    I had not thought of something attaching to his chair. I will check that out!
    I saw these lifting devices, but they are like 3 grand! They look like a hydraulic engine lift. If I thought that would work, I would just take mine down there!:lol: My dad would smack me stupid.

    He is a um...BIG fellow, so some of the seat lifter things won't work.
    He has lost a lot of weight just from the chemo, but he is still pretty hefty.
     
  4. Emma Caroline

    Emma Caroline Well-Known Member

    They have those cool camping chairs at Dicks that will let you lay back almost horizontal but you can sit up in them. They are very comfortable and are almost feel like they are rocking as you switch positions. I don't know how easy it would be for a big may to get up but you may want to look at them. I saw some this weekend and they were $69 I think
     
  5. PirateGirl

    PirateGirl Well-Known Member

    I noticed on one of the websites they had chairs that lift for larger people as well. I'm not sure of the weight limit on the thing I posted above but I thought it was reasonably priced.
     
  6. monaco177

    monaco177 Guest

    My family will be praying for him and for your family. God works miracles, keep your faith level high. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:
     
  7. FrameMaMa

    FrameMaMa Well-Known Member

    I checked out that seat lifter thing that is portable. They have kinds for larger people, but it looks fairly uncomfortable. I will figure something out I am sure. Thanks for the site though, it was a good one.

    Monaco,
    Thank you for your kind words. I will keep my faith high. I believe that the power of prayer is very strong, and I also know that has helped my father so far. Thank you for your prayers.
     
  8. JenniferK

    JenniferK Well-Known Member

    I'm sorry about your dad, and I'll keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. Let me know if you need anything.
     
  9. KellBell

    KellBell Well-Known Member

    Hey Frame~ I got a flyer in the mail yesterday to Bed Bath and Beyond, and they have the kind of chairs (I think) Emma Caroline mentioned and were marked at $59.99...and the flyer has a $5 coupon on it. If you decide that's what you want to get, let me know, you can have this coupon.


    here is a link to what I think she was referring to, and these are pretty comfy.....if this isn't what you were talking about Emma Caroline...sorry about that....

    http://www.bedbathandbeyond.com/pro...iCatalogName=MarchCirc09&rfx_OmniClientID=bbb
     
    Last edited: Mar 10, 2009
  10. Emma Caroline

    Emma Caroline Well-Known Member

    Yep--that is the one

    I thought he could move himself up to sitting upright and it would be easy to get up.

    I want a couple for our family anyway--Thanks for the sale tip at BBBY
     
  11. KellBell

    KellBell Well-Known Member


    If Frame doesn't want my coupon, you are welcome to it! :mrgreen:
     
  12. nsanemom22

    nsanemom22 Well-Known Member

    FrameMama I'm sorry your family is going through this. Hugs and prayers... :grouphug:
     
  13. FrameMaMa

    FrameMaMa Well-Known Member

    Thanks guys so much for your prayers and support.

    Kell,
    That is very close to what I think would work, but it would be a few months from now when I can get it, so feel free to give the coupon to someone who could use it now.
    Thank you though sweetie:grouphug:
     
  14. KellBell

    KellBell Well-Known Member

    You're very welcome.

    as it gets closer, if I get another coupon, I will let you know. In the meantime, I'll keep praying for Daddy and your family.
     
  15. kaci

    kaci Well-Known Member

    so sorry to hear Frame, i lost my Daddy to that demon and it is so hard to go through, my prayers and thoughts are with you.
     

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