Estranged husband abandoned or killed my cats!!

Ahhhhhh, bandmom....Tis is where I met my hubby too 5 years ago. We have a long way to go to get to 25, but he is just the best...and I'm a pretty good catch too. :mrgreen:

 

Of course this was after Ms. Lauterbach filed a complaint about Laurean to which her Mother said to ignore because her daughter was a "compulsive liar".

Yes, but they don't whine and complain about it for years.

Must not be that time of month.

As do I. But I don't cotton to those who whine about the opposite gender. Men are violent and crude, true. But women are just as dangerous and have the potential of being far more sinister than any man.

 

:iagree: 100%

 

Yes, we are a special breed. :lol:

 

sinister = smarter :-D

 

You need your hiney popped!!

 

LOL

 

And therein lies the problem. You think it's funny and cute when a man makes a comment about hitting you. Then, later once you hooked up, you whine and complain that he's a beater.

Just more proof of what I'm talking about.

 

That's because women lose all self control but blame it on hormones. I am a single father. I care more about my children than I do myself. But don't get holier than though on me. I have seen more instances in the news of women killing their children than men killing their children. You also have the nerve to say WOMEN have to be choosy about who their fathers are? Man. You have no evidence to support that. Men have to be choosy in the same fashion. That's why I am still single. Sometimes they look good from the outside but after looking under the hood some things are broken and the computer needs to be re-wired.

 

[quote=Clif;281175]Of course this was after Ms. Lauterbach filed a complaint about Laurean to which her Mother said to ignore because her daughter was a "compulsive liar".

So that makes it OK to kill her and burn her???? That's the most asinine, most irrelevant thing I have EVER seen you type. :cuss::banghead:

Yes, but they don't whine and complain about it for years.

Must not be that time of month.

As do I. But I don't cotton to those who whine about the opposite gender. Men are violent and crude, true. But women are just as dangerous and have the potential of being far more sinister than any man.[/quote]

 

I wasn't meaning hard....just a lite pat to make it jiggle a little. Yes MEN are pigs! I admit it!! I love women!! I love looking at em, erythang. God I need a hug and maybe a lap dance from HG I don't know. Sob SOb SOb

 

I was laughing because he meant it as a joke. Last time I checked he can not reach through my computer and slap me nor do I think he meant beat me. Lighten up! Get a sense of humor!

 

What part of both genders did you not see in my post?? :? Talk about holier than thou. Everybody needs to be more carefull who they crawl into bed with is the point. You can't make a silk purse out of a sow's ear.

 

:lol::lol::lol:

you crack me up!!!

You appreciate us too don't cha? (for the most part :mrgreen

 

I got this on a quick Google...........................

Just so you know I didn't pull that out of thin air. I'm sure any statistic can be massaged to make anybody look bad, but we have an epidemic of pregnant woment being murdered in this country, and not just by spouses/significant others. What about the women who murder other women just to get the baby? All I am saying is we ALL need to be careful, male or female.
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73 percent of family violence victims are female. Source: Bureau of Justice Statistics: "Family Violence Statistics," June 2005: http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs/pub/pdf/fvs.pdf

58 percent of family murder victims are female. Source: Bureau of Justice Statistics: "Family Violence Statistics," June 2005: http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs/pub/pdf/fvs.pdf

83 percent of spouse murderers are male. Source: Bureau of Justice Statistics: "Family Violence Statistics," June 2005: http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs/pub/pdf/fvs.pdf

Pregnant woman is more at risk for battery than non-pregnant women. Source: American Pregnancy Association: www.Americanpregnancy.org/main/statistics.html

Homicide is second leading cause of death among pregnant women.

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Source: “Homicide: A Leading Cause of Injury Deaths Among Pregnant and Postpartum Women in the United States, 1991-1999.” American Journal of Public Health.

March 2005, Vol 95, No.3.

Women under 18 who will be beaten within three months of child’s birth. Source: Family Violence Prevention Fund.
Family Violence Prevention Services were cut by 48 million this year. Source: Campaign for Funding to End Violence Against Women. FY 2006 Budget Briefing Book.

One million calls made to National Domestic Violence Hotline. Source: National Domestic Violence Hotline. www.ndvh.org/about.html
Intimates killed by guns. Source: Bureau of Justice Statistics. www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs/homicide/intimates.htm

Percentage reduction of men killed by intimates. Source: Bureau of Justice Statistics.
Percentage reduction of females killed by intimates. Source: Bureau of Justice Statistics.

Domestic violence is cause for homelessness in many cities. Source: U.S. Conference of Mayors, A Status Report on Hunger and Homelessness in America’s Cities: A 25-City Survey, December 2003. VIA National Network to End Domestic Violence.

Domestic abuse starts during first pregnancy. Source: American Pregnancy Association.
Domestic violence in same-sex relationships. Source: “Some States Offer No Domestic Violence Protection to Gays.” American Bar Association, 1998.
Men as victims. Source: “Intimate Partner Violence, 1993-2001.” Bureau of Justice Statistics, 2003.

Lost wages and productivity due to domestic violence. Source: Campaign for Funding to End Violence Against Women. FY 2006 Briefing Book.
Work days lost. Source: National Violence Against Women Survey, 2000. VIA Center for Disease Control and Prevention. www.cdc.gov/ncipc/pub-res/ipv_cost/03_incidence.htm

Mental and medical health care costs. Source: Campaign for Funding to End Violence Against Women. FY 2006 Briefing Book.
Number of children who witness domestic violence. Source: Campaign for Funding to End Violence Against Women. FY 2006 Briefing Book.
Victims of abuse as children often become abusers themselves. Source: “An Update on the ‘Cycle of Violence.’” National Institute of Justice – Research in Brief. February 2001.

Fact by which children of abused parents are likely to be abused themselves. Source: “Domestic Violence.” Administration for Children and Families (ACF), 2001.

African-American women who are victims of domestic violence. Source: “Extent, Nature, and Consequences of Intimate Partner Violence.” National Institute of Justice (NIJ)– findings from the National Violence Against Women Survey. 2000.

Native American women who are victims of domestic violence. Source: NIJ
Percentage of women who were beaten and had visited the ER in past two years. Source: “Predicting Future Injury among Women in Abusive Relationships.” The Journal of Trauma Injury, Infection, and Critical Care, 2004. VIA National Center for Injury Prevention and Control.

Percentage of domestic violence incidences that go unreported. Source: NIJ
Unreported because police would not believe them. Source: NIJ
Women slain by husbands or boyfriends. Source: Bureau of Justice Statistics Special Report: Six Differences in Violent Victimization, 1994. VIA District of Columbia Against Domestic Violence. www.dccadv.org/statistics.htm

Percentage of murder victims killed by intimate. Source: Bureau of Justice Statistics.
Number of times American women are abuse or stalked each year. Source: Center for Disease Control and Prevention.

Number of serious injuries caused by domestic abuse. Source: Center for Disease Control and Prevention.

Number of women who are hospitalized from domestic abuse. Source: Center for Disease Control and Prevention.

Number killed each year. Source: Bureau of Justice Statistics.
Percentage of women treated in ER from injuries sustained by husband/boyfriend. Source: “Violence Related Injuries Treated in Hospital Emergency Departments.” US Department of Justice, August 1997. VIA Family Violence Prevention Fund. http://endabuse.org/resources/facts/

 

You're right. That's almost as asinine as someone saying that all men are bad because one idiot killed and burned his girlfriend.

"Hard" is a matter of opinion.

Speak only for yourself. Personally I am no pig. I am polite, conscientious and respectful, not to mention a hopeless romantic.

Of course it was just a joke. All the way up until you wind up with a black eye. You may think violence against women is something a chitter about, but there are a lot of women out there who would disagree with your sentiment.

 

Show me where I said ALL men were bad??? 8) I happen to adore my husband (most days :mrgreen and wish there were more out there like him. I have NEVER said all men were bad, just that we need to be more careful.

 

Excuse me. "a LOT".

 

Clif, stop being a grumpy *** old man! He was making a joke! I do not know him irl do not plan on meeting him. He will NEVER get the chance to pop my hiney. It was a joke. I do not think women getting abused is something to chitter about but I don't think every man who makes a joke about spanking/popping my *** is a abuser either!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Which is exactly my point. Women want to complain, so they hear jokes that indicate the guy is a violent (but it was just a joke), hook up with him, then spend the rest of their lives complaining that he beats her.