I'm sure they are strap on's because you don't seem to have much of a real horn yourself..... oh, maybe I'm thinking of balls instead. Same difference for you
Best way to win her back is to move on so you dont want her back at all. Once you do that, I can promise she'll come back beggin.
I hope she doesn't mind that her name and situation is on a public message board. Or that it may backfire if he is trying to reconcile with her and she is ticked that the whole community weighed in on their troubles. I have no idea what went down with this family, but there are two sides to every story and hers is not out here so I have to reserve judgment or advice without knowing. No offense to him, but he said he is not the angry man he used to be. For all I know he could have been abusive. I'm not accusing him of that, but I also can't encourage his wife to get back together with him if she has a perfectly legit reason for having separated. (Now flame away. Nothing I haven't dealt with before :mrgreen