exactly. we had to get there early for pix (my in-laws were the photographers) and to get ready...so 3 or 4 hours later when the ceremony was actually supposed to happen, he was just done with the whole scene. no matter, he woke back up in time to be cute for the pictures after the ceremony. i was a bridesmaid so i didn't have to also worry about him during the ceremony causing any sort of ruckus....life was good. personally...i didn't have any kids in my wedding, don't recommend it, and tried to discourage my sister from doing it...but she wanted to, and it was her wedding. all's well that ends well.