I don't get your point but I think I hear you are saying that while not condoning it, you understand how it could happen. But my second reply, that you quoted wasn't so much directed at your reply as just a general statement of how I see it. No excuse, no sympathy for the guy no matter what his situation was. Had he killed only himself I would have felt bad for his family and sorry for what he must have gone through. But he killed the kids. May he burn in hell.
My sister was killed by her boyfriend 4 years ago and then he killed himself. Everyone thought he worshipped the ground she walked on. I never in a million years thought I would be without my sister and best friend. People are sick!!!