WHY ALL THE ANGER?? I come on here to look up issues about the money deals. and there is alot of good advice and information that I like to read about. However I do not usually post because to put it nicely you all our like sharks on goldfish to people who are out of your group. I think this is sad as I am sure there are alot of good people who want to talk with other people about their ideas and thoughts on the 40/42 website but cannot share because you all are mean. The person who started this thread did not imply anything mean and I feel sad for you all who took it like that. You see the world as people out to get you or others and not just saw it for a simple where is this person question. She probably liked reading what Jennifer had to say, I know I do. This is not high school anymore guys, its a website.I know there will be alot of mean words coming back if anyone takes the time to read this and thats fine. I will keep reading about the good deals and great advice and ignore the negative just wish others could share things too instead of reading people's mean comments and snap backs when others try to write. Thats awkward and uncomfortable. Give others a chance to feel comfortable enough to write. Also for the information of the readers, many many people have commented on this.
We are ALL mean??? I had no idea?? :? I happen to think there are an awful lot of very nice, helpful people on here. We may have our disagreements on occasion, but I can't think of a single person on here that we all wouldn't jump to help if the need arose. :cheers:
But some of us have other ideas as to who the OP really is, and their motive. So you can take that for what its worth, and put on your thick skin if you'd like to participate. Don't take anything personally, just be able to take it. :mrgreen: BAD SYBIL!!
What anger? I haven't seen any anger in this thread. :neutral: Just someone looking to find Jen. She posted so the mystery is solved. Is there more to this thread than meets the eye? 8)
See. When I say mean I do not mean every single person You should also not take that to heart. I should say I do see alot of people going after a person . It is the feeling from myself that alot of people get offended and start going after a person. I do not know you all in person to call you mean or not. In fact I know a couple of people on here whom I truly think are awesome and I respect them. So I guess what would make since for me to write so my every word does not get dissected is I see alot of people on here being rude to people who are just trying to write like them and are trying to make friends like them. It just is uncalled for. So please do not take things personal or get offended, it is not like I personally said things to one person who has responded. Also if you are not one of the people that has jumped on people then you should not think this applies to you and you should not be offended.:iagree::beathorse:
I think people just sometimes need a thick skin in a message board setting. Some people post things just to make other people mad and see what happens...(hence...trolls) Also, this is a MESSAGE BOARD, FORUM... most people in real life are TOTALLY different and a computer screen is easy to hide behind and talk tough or confrontational Please don't let some comments bother you, just let them roll...... Another thing is that alot of newbies do come around and post and just leave, in order to get to know folks on here you just need to post and keep posting.
The board is what it is. It's a cross section of all types of folks, if you don't like the way it is, no one makes you read it. I don't get folks who start off complaining about the very board they are posting on. Just trying to understand here...............no offense intended. 8)
Sure there are some folks on here that seem less than welcoming, but for the most part everyone is very nice and welcoming! I have never felt attached and have never been mean to anyone......yet. I think in some cases people are very passionate about a topic and it may come across as mean or hateful. The board is what it is! I like that kdc!!